Nine ways to seduce someone in one minute
Zero to 100 in a minute
Most of us get aroused quickly (it's a myth that only happens to men). Touches, whispers, our own fantasies... Any time is a good time to smile at someone or make a dishonest proposal. You already know that almost anything or indication can be a sign for us, although on many occasions, wrong. And that's why, in most cases, we find it difficult to decipher if they are flirting with us or just trying to be nice (although it happens more to us men). With these simple and quick forms, we are sure that it will be quite clear to them. And remember, even if it is hinted, a no is no.
Put on very sexy clothes
"The important thing is inside", that's clear, but whoever says that the first thing they notice is inside is surely lying to us. Everything enters our eyes, the more visual the better, marketing is made for that, it may be the worst idea in the world but if it is beautiful and well wrapped we will surely buy it. The same happens when you want to seduce someone (especially a man). Put on provocative clothes: garter belt, high or fishnet stockings, lingerie always works. Being sensual and subtle is the key to arousing someone you like in a matter of seconds. Imagine lifting your skirt and showing your garter belt. In the case of a man, a tight boxer, some slips that mark everything. Smiling or playing with your hair will also help you start the seduction game. According to Allan Pease, author of the book 'The language of the human body', we like to see that the other person leaves vulnerable parts of his body uncovered, when sitting down, crossing his legs, moving his feet and ankles. Try it!
Write or say "dirty" things
The app revolution has set the bar very high, eroticism and subtlety have been relegated too much. It's okay, we'll take advantage of it as new tools to get in tune. Send her a sexy photo, or if you're embarrassing, heat up the conversation in writing with things you wouldn't normally say. Even an audio can be very exciting. There are also other more conventional ways like leaving a note or writing a message when the bathroom mirror is fogged up. We are sure that as soon as he reads it, he will answer you. Dana Myers, a faithful defender of 'talking dirty', revealed in an interview for 'Marie Claire': "Saying what you think and showing your satisfaction with words is exciting. You don't have to overreact if you don't have fun, but don't shut up out of shame either what you like.In the words of Myers, "Trust yourself and let your inner rogue show a little bit."
Avert your gaze and let it show
If the gaze between the two is maintained for a more or less prolonged period of time without either averting their eyes, it is evident that there is chemistry . That would be too easy, and we like challenges. Imagine that you are in a disco and your eyes have met a couple of times, you like him and you like him, but look away a couple of times to another so that he gets nervous and comes to you in a tenth of a second. It doesn't fail. If you want her to come to you, stare at her a couple of times and then ignore her. She will end up taking the initiative. A study led by psychologists from two Scottish universities came to the conclusion that the infallible recipe for seduction is to smile and look into the eyes. The research by scientists from Stirling and Aberdeen sought to determine what makes us like one face more than another and to what extent this influences our sexual preferences.
The stranger's game (or vice versa)
One thing that never fails is playing strangers. There is no need to get jealous because someone fantasizes about famous actors or actresses, musical idols or different professions. It has always been said "if you can't beat your enemy, join him". Take advantage of their weaknesses and take them as inspiration to create a character. A simple wig, a drastic makeover or career costumes can make the other go crazy. According to the blog of Dr. Mark Griffiths, psychologist and professor at Nottingham Trent University, he makes a list of the uniforms or costumes that most provoke the imagination of men: cheerleader, waitress, nurse, cleaning woman, secretary, office worker and schoolgirl. They are at the top. In the case of women; fireman, policeman or suit. It doesn't have to be one of these, it's much easier than that, take anything you never wear and that doesn't identify you and wear it.
Playing "Mirror"
It's not what you're thinking. Having sex in front of the mirror, or having one on top of the bed and doing it while you look at yourself... It's not a bad idea either, but it's a bit outdated. Now it is carried out is to put on a high-voltage film and imitate the role of each one. That the girl kisses her neck, you kiss her neck, that the boy caresses her breasts, that he caresses yours, that one of the two begins to have oral sex, that the one who touched him begins... There is infinite possibilities. Surely just by proposing it, he will already be like a motorcycle.
Say you want it
It is one of the easiest ways to seduce us. Tell us how good we are in bed, how well we treat you, or the things that turn you on the most and it will burn every corner of the room. Lean over him or her, kiss him and whisper in his ear how much you like what he does to you in bed, or just how horny you get to see him. When you want to realize it, he or she will be climbing the walls.
Dominate him
The man is the one who usually initiates relationships. We have already said before that we feel like it all the time. Is a reality. Try to take charge, take the reins, force yourself and dominate him. The next time he's relaxing in bed or sprawled on the couch, jump on him and grab his hands. Control the situation and control him. Your libido is exploding. A study by Patricia H. Hawley and William A. Hensley, IV in 2009 revealed that 66.2% of men and 57.52% of women stated that between 50% and 100% of their fantasies were related to a similar situation .
Start a little early (and tell her about it)
You're on a date and you know how it's going to end. Perhaps you will start with dessert, although that is difficult to know. If you're horny, try to get some pleasure before your partner arrives. Your arousal will fill the environment with pheromones that your body will capture and fuel your animal instinct. To get him in the mood before he arrives, tell him what you're doing.
Experiment with toys
We are sure that your boy will like to see how you play with yourself. Sex toys are very good for keeping the relationship in tune. Buy a vibrator (if you don't already have one) and experiment together. Another option that will drive you both crazy is a vibrating ring, maximum pleasure for both of you that will become a safe bet. The idea of using toys, handcuffs, even whips, will make your eyes widen. A study conducted by the Center for the Promotion of Sexual Health at Indiana University, in the United States, revealed that the use of vibrators improves sex drive. female sexual function, help prevent diseases, break the monotony and increase the complicity of the couple.